The Husband Tag



Where we met: We met in London. In the parlor of the London Centre. He walked in with a bunch of friends, I was laying on the couch trying to get over my jet lag. I thought he was so cool and funny.

How long we dated before we got hitched: We knew each other 9 months before tying the knot.

How long have we been married: 8 years.

What's my favorite feature about him: His way of thinking, his five o'clock shadow, his knees and calves.

What's my favorite quality about him: His priorities are the right ones. Our little family always comes first. School, work, internship, and church calling all take a back seat. That doesn't mean we don't have Ben-less days around here, but it does mean that when he is around he makes it count.

What's his nickname for me: Share, Shara, Hun, Sweetie.

His favorite color: BYU Blue or maybe black? This one is hard to figure out. I don't even think he could give me an answer.

His favorite food: Every type of food you can think of. He is a master at finding excellent restaurants or awesome recipes to try out.

His favorite sport: Golf hands down. Although he seems to know the scores and results to every major sport out there. You name it, if the game was important he knows the outcome.

Who said the L word first: I think it was me. These details are sketchy in my mind. I'll have to look it up in my journal.

First kiss, when and where: About one month after spending every day together. It was night time in London. We were walking home from the Paddington Library together. He decided to hold my hand and kiss me the same night. The street name was Prince Court. I cried. Partly because kissing him seemed like the right thing to do (or perhaps it just felt right), and partly because I had a boyfriend back in the states that would need an explanation later. Ben knew this information and still took the chance. Very brave if you ask me, but hey, I wanted it to happen.

Favorite couple thing to do: Go out on dates. We mostly go out to eat at some top rated restaurant. Don't confuse that with top dollar. Cucina Toscana was SLC #1 Italian 2008, and it also won #1 overall. Settabellos -I think is #1 for pizza joints. These are our favorites at the moment.

How many kids: 2 and 1/2

His hidden talent: He is a good writer, although most already know that. He is also good at Rummikub, competitively speaking. He tries to limit his games due to how freakishly good he is at it. He has many others though. Like how good he is at putting tights on Rosie, or gardening, taking care of cars, and cooking. I play the sues chef more than he does these days. Wow, he is good.

His age: 31 years

His favorite music: He likes something from most generations but as a whole I would say alternative, such as Coldplay. I'm also surprised at the number of Butt Rock hits that he knows. Those come from his high school days I think.

What I admire most about him: His goodness. His desire to learn regardless of subject (like one semester he took a auto mechanics class, and oh yeah, he took First aid and CPR. He took them for the practicality of knowing the information, which has come in handy). Finally, his desire to make me happy, he is very good at this.

His favorite pastimes: In no particular order; golfing, reading, and spending time with the family.

Will he read his: Only if I tell him to check the blog.

Oh Brave One























My cowboy dad entered into surgery about 20 minutes ago. 3-4 hours from now he will emerge drowsy yet cancer free, and oh yes, minus one sick gland.

I'm so happy that he was able to come to Utah to have the surgery done here. I feel like I can be more a part of the recovery. I remember many days and nights when I was sick I'd just call his name and he would right every wrong in my eyes. I doubt that I can right every wrong, but I'd like to try, or at least do what I can. (If that means taking his wife shopping so be it;). What ever it takes right?

Last night my dad was acting stoic, cracking jokes, and enjoying the family here in Utah. I'm guessing even though the next week or more of his life will be spent in bed, he will still be fun and acting silly with the grandkids, trying his hardest not to look or act sick.

Dad, Pacha, Grandpops, Oh Brave One. Good luck today. I love you.

A Very Happy UnBirthday To . . .

A Happy 31 years Ben!!



Seriously, who has time? December couldn't get any busier could it? In 8 years of marriage we have only celebrated Ben's birthday once on his actual birthday. Ben has been in school for so long that he has either been studying for a final, taking a final or giving a final on his birthday. And good luck trying to reschedule a date night in December. There are so many ward functions, concerts, and family parties to attend that why even try and cram it all in, and even if you did, how do you find a babysitter? How can a birthday be truly special when it is just smashed in between finals and other parties? Not possible I tell you.

For approximately 6 years we have been celebrating Ben's birthday two months early to the day. We felt like there were already too many birthday in November (on my side) and thus we chose the slower month of October to really spend some time together. Slowly but surely we have managed to persuade our extended families to also celebrate early with us as well. This is no small task I assure you. My family decided a few years ago to get on the celebration bandwagon and they have almost forgotten that his real (he calls it his "biological") birthday is in December.

This year, the Welch family finally consented to a birthday dinner and cake on his October UnBirthday. Ben and I managed to fit in 4 night get away with just the kids up at the cabin as well as some nights out on the town with just the two of us, oh and some birthday shopping, and a Sunday family birthday dinner. Now tell me, would that really fit in the average December schedule?? I think not.

Just to be clear. Ben, my dear, I will celebrate your birthday whatever month you want it. And if you feel like moving your birthday to even earlier in the year that is fine by me. So long as it is not in August;)

The Vote
November 4, 2008

Dear Wiley,

In the days leading up to the election, you were learning about how our government functions. The school was getting the kids interested in the elections and even letting them simulate participation. The older kids wrote debates, and kids could campaign for their favorite candidate. Every student also got to vote.

On November 4th, you came home with pride in your eyes. You couldn't stop talking about your day. You were so glad that you got to vote. You told me all about the debates. (I actually was at the school to hear two of the arguments.) You were one of only two students that voted for Barack Obama in your classroom. I'm so proud that you voted for who you wanted to, and that you were not afraid to be different and to think differently from the "crowd." This attribute will serve you well in the years to come.

That night, while Dad and I were upstairs hanging shelves in the playroom, you were the one downstairs watching the numbers come in on CNN. You kept running in and giving us the update on who was winning the election. Finally, you came in to tell us Barack Obama had won the whole thing and you were so happy that you voted for him.

When I asked you why you voted for Barack Obama, you got out your yellow, 1990s GameBoy Pokemon game and told me there was a Pokemon character that looked like Barack (which, I can verify, actually does look like Barack), and that there is a Pokemon card with the word "Rock" in it.

Wiley, my sweet boy, you voted for Barack because of your love and devotion for all things Pokemon. Dad and I laughed and laughed. We all stayed up and watched John McCain's concession speech and Barack Obama's acceptance speech together. You listened to every word.

Wiley, please stop growing up. It is moments like these that I realize that you are not my little "Frogger" anymore. I worry that my time with you is passing too quickly. Even at age six you have found your little voice, and this is not the first time. Thanks for being the boy that you are, -- sensitive, outgoing, strong in your convictions, a leader, and so full of energy (as any primary worker can attest). Thanks for the little hugs and kisses that you offer me just because you are happy. Everyday with you is such a gift, I just wish I acted like it more often. I love being your mother. I promise to buy you more Pokemon cards if you just stay my little "Scooby."

I love you,
Mom

Dress-Up Flashbacks
























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I could write a page on each one of these dress-up moments, but I won't. I just want to say that I have had some fun dress-up moments over the years -- whether with old roommates, my husband, and especially with the kids. P.S. Just for the record: some of these ensembles never left the house -- so don't be too shocked ...

Dress-Up Continued. . .

I love to dress-up -- not just in a dress or some other formal wear, but also to dress-up in something totally different. As such, Halloween is one of my favorite times of the year. Here are just a few dress-up moments from the past few months.

This is Ben and me this year. We went as LEGOs, just in case your imagination didn't tell you that we were Legos.

FYI we won the "most creative" trophy.

Wiley was a Magician this Halloween. He performed his tricks (with his usual comedy banter) at two different venues -- the Welch Family Halloween Party and the Dyer Halloween Party. Wiley did well at both performances. I just wish I had them both recorded. We "ohhed," and "ahhhed," and laughed the whole time. He ate it up. Most of his tricks are sleight of hand -- making things disappear and such -- mostly packaged tricks like you'd buy at a truck stop. But the grand finale is all his own -- he turns into a black rock. Houdini has nothing on our boy.

Sweet Rosie went as Ariel from the Little Mermaid this Halloween. How Ariel would keep a puppy alive "under the sea" is a Disney mystery. But Rosie doesn't go anywhere without puppy, so what do you do? Also, careful viewers will notice that Ariel is wearing a "shade" with her seashells -- yes, they make shades for toddlers.


















This is us at the Ward Sock Hop. We had a great time. They even had two teachers come and teach some dance moves. By the way, Ben's costume is his real letterman's jacket from high school. He also rolled up some Altoids in his sleeve to look like cigarettes.
















The Welch Family Fall 2008

















Just for a point of interest, I thought I might reveal where my love of dressing up came from.

My mother, my Aunt Julie and Aunt Liza have been dressing up for years at various family reunions and singing hilarious songs. Every year my parents also host a "Tacky Party" -- a party where everyone comes dressed in tacky clothing and presumably makes tacky comments. I can't think of a year that my parents didn't dress up for Halloween. We've even had themed Christmas dinners where costumes are a requirement.

Thanks mom for passing on the dress-up gene. Rosie and Wiley also have it.